My girlfriend cheated can I give her second chance?

When I asked her why, she told me it’s because she couldn’t handle the loneliness. (We were in a long distance relationship at the time.) I have now moved to the same town where she lives.

Both of us are still single and for the last 5 months, she has been asking me for another chance. She wants to start afresh. I am tempted but still hesitant because I know people rarely change. Your advice please. Bikandema John.

It’s something no one should ever have to say, and it’s the worst thing you can imagine, . Your wife, your girlfriend, your partner has betrayed you in the most humiliating and trust-shattering way.

This is one of the most difficult moments of your life, and there’s one huge question staring at you: what do I do now? 

You’re at your most vulnerable, but still, in this situation, it can be hard to go to family or friends for advice. And while there are thousands of articles out there for women when their partner cheats, it’s harder for men to readily find the same advice.

Now, you’re probably asking yourself one of these:

• My girlfriend cheated on me but I still love her.
• My girlfriend cheated on me how do I get over it?
• My girlfriend cheated on me and wants me back… should I take her back?    And that’s why below, I put together a step-by-step guide to helping you answer those questions and helping you determine what you should do when your partner cheats on you. Maybe you already know she cheated on you… but if you’re even slightly unsure, be sure you know the signs your girlfriend is cheating. Here are a few signs she might be cheating on you:
  1. She’s talking way too much to someone
  2. She’s become obsessed with her privacy
  3. She’s suddenly very jealous and suspicious
  4. She’s looking for reasons to complain/fight
  5. She’s developing a new personality