The questions you ask & thoughts you harbor show what you are-experts
Experts have revealed that people often ask questions that reflect what they are and many times the thoughts they harbour is what they will always flaunt.
According to experts, it is very easy to tell a person’s calibre or his job or lifestyle after listening to their talk for a few minutes. “If, for instance, these guys who are engaged in a conversation are car brokers, they are most likely talking about enjawulo (commission) and how some of their colleagues are blessed,” Amina Nantongo, a social worker reveals.
“Ibrahim is blessed, his cars always bring enjawulo. The other day his car brought me sh200,000 commission,” such is their talk.
On the other hand, many will ask questions that would demoralize their colleagues. Therefore never ask awkward questions like, ” Oh! So you aren’t married yet?, or don’t you have kids?, or why don’t you have a car?” for God’s sake, it isn’t your problem!
Nantongo says such questions may trigger some unpleasant emotions plus making someone uncomfortable.
She also advises, “never call someone more than twice continuously like as if they stole your kidney! If they don’t pick up, presume they have something important to attend to.”
Nantongo says, “always return money and other things that you have borrowed even before the other person remembers asking for it, it shows your integrity and character.”
Never order for the expensive dish on the menu when on the date or when someone is giving or buying you lunch or dinner, if possible ask them to order their choice of food for you.
Always open the door for the person coming behind you, it doesn’t matter if is a guy or a girl, senior or junior, you don’t grow small by treating someone well in public.
Learn to respect people’s different opinions, remember what is 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you, besides second opinion is good for an alternative.