Opinion

Dilemma of helping a confused wife

Hi, I am a married wife. I married my husband, a secondary school teacher in 2014. I brought my brother and sister to stay with us. My husband sponsored them in secondary school and now they want to go to University.

My young sister wants to do a degree in Pharmacy & my young brother wants to do Law. My young sister was inspired by our elder sister who is a pharmacist. And my young brother was inspired by our elder brother who is a lawyer.

The problem now is that my husband is telling my siblings to do a Bachelor in Education. He is saying that it’s what he can afford. I told him that my siblings can’t do such a cheap and useless course. My siblings have also refused. Even my family can’t accept such mockery.

I don’t know if my husband is just feeling jealousy of my siblings. Maybe he is doing this simply because I am not working and my siblings may be better than him. I need sober advise please kubanga mpulira sijja sobola musajja atayagaliza.

Analysis

It may be difficult for some readers here to understand the purpose of this story. The Drone Media takes initiative to analyze the story. Now, the so called lawyer and pharmacist are not paying for their siblings, but the confused wife is blaming her husband whose job despised! Yet, this despised job has paid for the siblings and is to pay for the appropriate course.

The moral of the story is that confused wives should always be ignored because they will never understand or difinitiate between a favour and a right. It is neither an obligation of the husband to look after his in-laws nor a right to infringe on his resources. This is what confused wives should take note of.

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