Fabiola starts conjugal journey on bragging note
By Lydia Etii Ajwang
Former NTV Presenter Anita Kyarimpa better known as Anita Fabiola, who last week concluded her conjugal journey, has started on bragging note, she says:
“I am married with successful business,”Fabiola brags.Is marriage a measure of success?”The newest bride on the Internet took to her Twitter handle and stated that she had stayed away from Twitter for 12months but now she is back because she has a successful make up business and she is married.She seemed to attach her importance to her recent marriage and make up business.
This brings us to tje question if marriage is a measure of success in a community.Success is one when one feels fulfilled by the life they lead.The measure of success varies from person to person.Some people see attaining many academic accolades as success,others see having alot of money as success , others see being devoted to God and one’s religion as success.
It all goes back to the society we grew up in…what each society valued and drummed into the heads of their children as important and a measure of success.
In a partriachal society like Uganda, girl children right from childhood are encouraged to look upto getting married.Statements like “Which man will marry you with those manners?” Marriage is used as a yard stick for measuring good character iñ girl children.
A girl child is seen as complete wjen she comes of age gets married and bears children.If she doesn’t produce children,she will be considered unsuccessful and incomplete, thus every woman’s womb is at stake at being judged if it can bear children.
Perhaps Fabiola might have had alot of people saying she can’t get married considering her slaying lifestyle, party hoping,taking alcohol, putting on skin revealing clothes and short clothes and also her company of friends was presumed to be bad.
Once an audio she had a bitter exchange with her father and she insulted her father that he is “feaces” went viral.Her “bad manners” was now known to everyone.
Conjugal activity, known as marriage is considered a privilege and a gift for well behaved ladies who dress well,talk well,and have good company.So in all aspects,Fabiola was not well cut out as a wife material.
Fabiola is just contented because she has reached the societal expectation of every girl child. She is lucky in her conjugal program, she is married into a very rich family, dowry paid and has a successful business.
Who is Fabiola and where does she come from?
Real name Anita Kyarimpa was born in June 1994 to veteran journalist Mathias Mugisha, Fabiola studied her O and A level from St Lawrence Schools then after pursued Mass communication at Makerere University.
Fabiola came to the limelight when she acted in the NTV drama series, second chance where she acted as Angella.
She then participated in the Miss Uganda beauty pageant in 2013 where she became a first runner up.
She was also a host on NTV program called Be My date.She hosts many events,has her own makeup business and was a tourism brand ambassador for Uganda dubbed “Tulumbe” in 2019.