Sheebah Kalungi is nursing a sexual arousal disorder

Apparently Sheebah Kalungi is nursing a Sexual arousal disorder.  She recently told a buddy, “Some of us are really just living. We ain’t dating, we ain’t being a hoe (whore), we don’t like nobody, nobody likes us. We are just working, eating, sleeping and living life.”

According to psychologists sexual arousal disorder is characterized by lack or absence of sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activity in a situation that would normally produce sexual arousal, or the inability to attain or maintain typical responses to sexual arousal. This is exactly what itches the Ugandan female dancehall queen.

The triangular theory of love developed by psychologist Robert Sternberg,  gives three components of love which include intimacy, passion, and commitment. If one misses one of the three mentioned components; he/she behaves or utters such words like Sheebah told her buddy.

Intimacy encompasses feelings of attachment, closeness, connectives, and bondedness. Passion encompasses drives connected to both limerance and sexual attraction.

There are neurochemical processes that bring such feelings or occurrences whenever men and women are in love.  According to Silva, a psychologist, the body releases adrenaline, dopamine and serotonin, in addition to testosterone and estrogen. Dopamine is what creates chivalrous behavior in men and intense attachment for women.

According to Silva, once you have fallen for someone, your body naturally speeds up its processing of these feel-good hormones, which creates a chemical intensity that is often described as “love.” It’s not long before the bodies become addicted to the euphoric feelings of love triggered by the lovers.

For instance, when a partner leaves on a business trip or is away from another, he/she may feel stressed (especially if it is a newer relationship),” Baguma tells The Drone Media. “When they feel stressed they are biologically seeking validation that everything is okay from their partners.”