Anyone can be a father, but…….

Role of fathers in the family. Today it is a fathers day. However, there are few people who genuinely celebrate this day because of circumstances or ill behaviour or other reason the world has inflicted on them.

Now, before you read further first understand who a father is. Secondly, know  his role in the home. Also know the benefits of the available father. Then llook at the consequences of the absent father.Eeeh! Trace personality traits & qualities of a good father. How to be a good and faithful father should not be ignored.

This whole thing aims at educating, to encourage and motivate men, to hear the call to battle on behalf of their children, to show children the importance of fathers in the home.

Well, a father is the male parent of a child. The father has parental, legal & social responsibilities as well as relationship with his child/children. Fathers contribute to the development of their children spiritually, emotionally, physically and socially (connect with people).

Anyone can be a father, but it takes a real man to be a Daddy. His works are thankless & endless. Daddies make sure that all their children are well adjusted in all dimensions of life.
He is a family’s pillar; pillar of strength, pillar of support & instils discipline.

A good father is open minded. He accepts that his children are exactly not like him. He leads by example/open door policy. Spends quality time with his children. He is very supportive, protects his family and gives unconditional love to all members of his family.

He loves his children unconditionally, gives his children good education, provides good accommodation for the familly. He assists in the development of mental & physical strength of the children. He is protective and also affectionate. He listen non-judgementallly. He respects his wife; the mother of his children.

A good father starts when his wife is pregnant, he cares for the physical, emotional and financial needs of the wife and unborn baby. When the child is toddler, school age, teenager, Adolescents until they are young adults.

The absent father is the one who has abandoned his or her child, and failed to maintain contact with the child. Absent parent is the one with non-custodial of his child but obligated to pay partial child support.
Fathers who are present in the home but are physically and emotionally detached from the children.