My Husband Is Lazy In Bed- Woman tells Court

A woman in Kabuyanda in Isingiro District has told a village court that she is filing for a divorce because her husband is lazy in bed.

Allen Kashaija, who is a mother of one is married to Edward Kashaija, but she and her husband have been going through a difficult period, so she has decided to seek a divorce. They have been married for three years, but she says she does not feel happy in the marriage any more because her husband has changed.

She says that about a year ago, she found him out with their maidservant at home. At first, he lied that he was trying to revive her because she had collapsed from working too hard. He played with her intelligence, thinking she was not smart. He kept cheating on her.

Later that year, her husband lost his job. Since then, Edward has been looking after their son while Allen works. “I am tired of being the one working all day while my husband idles around at home,” she says. “I want to get a divorce.” She said she’s the one providing their son’s needs. Her husband is not serious about finding another job. She states she’s tired of the marriage, providing to her child all alone, “my husband is useless and less of a man.” 

In defense, Kashaija admits that he has been helping his friend run a piggery business. He says that he earns about sh150,000 each month from this venture. He adds that he works from home during the day when not babysitting their son. Allen is surprised at this information because she sees Kashaija as a waste of space and not good for anything. In fact, she calls him useless.

However, she is so eager to get a divorce from him that she accuses him of being lazy in bed and failing to meet her sexual needs. She accuses him of not being able to quench her thirst in bed and insists she gets a divorce from him. It is also revealed that Kashaija is not the biological father of the child he has been taking care of for those years.