Emotional jail is not a good place
Jail
By Correspondent
Do you know an emotional jail? How do you feel when you cheat on someone you love? How do you feel when you start getting unnecessarily close to someone else? Those hugs, pegs, text, unecessary cares etc do you think they will just end there?
How will you feel if someone cheats on you, too? Because, what comes around goes around. This subject has ended many homes, many marriages, many relationships.
Listen, nobody wants to be a second choice! Even Universities refuse to give admission when they are prefered as second choices! If you can’t love him/her again just walk boldly to them and tell them. Stop frustrating people’s children, emotional jail is the worse place to be! Tell them the truth!!! The truth that hurts is better than the lies that kills.
If he can cheat on you in that relationship he can obviously cheat on you in that marriage! Listen, every fornicator is an adulterer in training! If she can sleep around in that relationship she can also sleep around in that marriage. Marriage is not the cure for your indisciplined, uncultured and your unrenewed lifestyles.
God can say she is the one for you. That is not the end of the story bro, if you decide to change, leave a dirty life. She might not be aware that you are cheating on her but her father in heaven who is the Ultimate match maker will take her away from you and give her to someone who would take care of her well and vice versa.
Listen, some break ups are divinely orchestrated! You don’t need to cry when you see some certain things happening in your relationship. you try to fix things and it’s not working, my dear hand it over to God. Time is a revealer.
Yes, we are humans sometimes, we meet people and due to one or two reasons we begin to feel something for them, hey please guard your heart the only way to resolve cheating is by speaking to the person you’ve cheated on, it is said that if you can disgrace a sin it will be hard to continue in it, talk to him or her about it ask for forgiveness it may be painful but someone who loves you would give you another chance.
Above all the sure way to enjoying your relationship is inviting God in it. Do you know what you can enjoy when you bring God into your relationship? When you both have the fear of God, you will trust each other, there won’t be fear of someone cheating, anger will be far from you, etc because being a true child of God alone takes care of all that.